The beliefs we formulate as we grow up are critical in determining our success in later life.
A parent can discourage a child with throw away comments like “you’ll never amount to much” or “you are so disorganised”. The child believes that “I’ll never be able to do well at school”. In later life, a poor interview or presentation may transform the limiting belief into ‘I’m no good at selling myself” or “I can’t sell”. This can lead to a tendency to avoid those situations in the future, making the limiting belief a self-fulfilling prophecy!
Limiting beliefs can be the root cause of under-achievement.
How do we identify limiting beliefs?
A limiting belief is basically something we speak of (or think) as a negative or comparative: for example, “I’m not that clever” or “I’m not good enough for…”
How do we change our limiting beliefs for more empowering ones?
Sometimes, just posing the right questions will be sufficient to enable a client to identify and then change their beliefs about a particular event.
Re-framing questions like “perhaps you have this belief that you can’t sell because you have lacked the proper tools to change the belief?” help the client shift their perspective.
The belief can be challenged. “You have learned a lot of other things since then, haven’t you? What would you need to do to start the process of learning how to sell right now?”.
Sometimes, the underlying emotional issue needs to be healed by re-experiencing past events as if the required resources were available, enabling the client to imagine how they would have reacted to similar events through their life. This helps prepare them to behave differently next time.
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I have tailored a process based on NLP for successfully changing these unwanted beliefs. Once we have identified them, uncovered through carefully posed questions, I can lead you though different exercises that will teach you how to replace them. We can change limiting beliefs by amending the details of how they are represented in our minds. With guidance I shall lead you through the process of replacing them with new and empowering beliefs. Ultimately, this will free you up to become the real you and to fulfil your own unique purpose and destiny.
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